Wednesday 26 March 2014

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A FREE MEAL

Anything with a free tag catches our eye immediately. 
We do run for it and forget nothing is for free. 



My professor during post-graduation always used to mention "THERE's NO SUCH THING AS A FREE MEAL"

Well that's true and make sense. Because, we give something free, either to gain some value or it has already lost its value. Its hard to accept but in my opinion, its true.

To get something for free, we surely give something in return. If you give a dog some food, you may think its having food for free, but it gives loyalty and commitment to you in return.
If you think you are getting something for free, don't have a blind-folded faith about it. You already gave something in return or you will be giving it soon. 

In this hot election season in India, politicians promise many things that are beyond hope. Like free education, laptops, food, electricity, electronics, what not. People do believe them most of the time. But there's nothing that's free. We vote them to get access to our own money, paid in the form of taxes and many other forms. We have to realize that they are not giving us their own earnings. It's our money that they are going to give us may be in different forms. Just a thought, though.



But do we value what we get easily???

Let us consider a clearance sale for a famous cloth brand. By default, it is to clear the left-over stock. Even though we know about it, we get excited when there's a free sale poster. 
You go to the sale and buy the same dress that you liked at the beginning of the trend but couldn't afford to buy it. Though you know the actual cost of it but bought it for lesser price, its value may differ to you. You wouldn't find it trendy or valuable enough as earlier. Because, when you see it, you will remember how much you spent on it. Its value becomes less in your sight because, you did not put much money to get it. That may be the human tendency. It's how people look at things.

If it is easy to get, there's something wrong with it. Even human. If we go easy on someone, we are loosing our value with them. If you cry easily you are fragile. You fall easily, you are weak. You forgive easily, you are innocent. Get hurt easily, not worth having.

What you get for free, doesn't last long. Either you loose it or it will be lost. 

We treasure things that we got with difficulty. A small mud stone, if it is found in a long-lost treasure trunk, it becomes precious. Doesn't it? 

I feel it'd be good to be a mud stone in a treasure box than a pebble under the sea.

Easy money doesn't have the thrill in them. Yes it'd bring peace when used it for something good.



Take less and try to give more than it. Well, its my piece of mind. It always worked that way to me!!!


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